Praise Report!

         Yesterday came and went with no CARA approval due to offices being closed. We did find out that my birthday is a national holiday in India (this year at least the date moves similar to Easter). The holiday that happened was Eld al-Adha "The Feast of Sacrifice" during which Muslims pay respect to Ibrahim "Abraham" and his willingness to sacrifice his son Isaac in the view of Christians, however in Islam Ishmael is believed to be the son that was spared by God. They kill a cow or a ram and eat 1/3 of the meat, 1/3 of the meat goes to neighbors, and 1/3 to the poor.

Praise Report:    

      We shared how we had a friend who had offered a matching grant up to $500. We have been so blessed to have reached this $500 and got 100% of the matching. That is an other $1,000 in our adoption account. Praise to God above!! We have been blessed with so many people coming along side us in prayer and monetary support for this sweet little man that we pray to be matched with. Adoption is hard, expensive, and time consuming. We could not do this with out our tribe! 

 Prayer Requests:

•  Current estimated need to completing adoption is $20,747. 
• CARA approval
• To be matched with our sweet boy
• "Isaiah's" health and wellness while in the orphanage

We have fallen in love.

        So, this past week we received a file for  a little boy who is 3 years old. He has some delays and medical needs, but the moment I was reading his information I know I needed to be this little man's momma.

         I am not the love at first sight kinda gal. I really am more the over think, stress, and then call 3 friends and have them analyze my every thought kinda gal. However this was something that seemed so right from the start. To remain true to who I am I did need to call my gals and have them help me think it through. Then one text message to a friend who has a child with a similar health concern. She was so kind and helpful in sharing what her family deals with and what the projected needs may be. That sealed the deal. We are all smitten. I wish I could share his picture on here for you all to see his sweet face but I cannot until we are farther along, but rest assured he has the sweetest little face and soon enough you will all be so tired of seeing our posts about our SON!!

       There is one problem.... a big one...... we are have to wait till we become CARA approved before we can ask to make this little guy ours forever. CARA is the Indian agency that states we are able to adopt from India. They are approving us to be Potential Adoptive Parents (PAP's). This agency has had major delays due to many things outside of their control and now they are swamped with paperwork. They have prioritized cases that are closest to completion (Rational me understands this, momma who is at the start of process is crying inside as I type this. ) We should be coming close to the top of the list ti be approved.

      My birthday is Wednesday and all I want is to have CARA say we are approved and we can be matched with our little man. Brandon's birthday is coming in a week or so also and I claiming this is what he wants also, lol.

    God has been so good to us in the process, sometimes we didn't see His grace until the storm had pasted ( cough......lightening hitting house.....cough). We know our family, church family, and friends are our prayer partners in this process and for that we are eternally grateful. So many of you all have rallied behind us in hard times, and partnered with us in prayer. #tribegoals


   While We Wait: 
The big girls started school. Maddison is in 4th grade and moved into middle school. I still have not accepted this completely yet. Jacquelyn is now in 1st grade. They have loved it, minus getting up early.

We recently wrapped up Puxico Homecoming. For my friends who have never experienced this it is a fair in the small town of Puxico,MO where the whole town is centered around coming back to town and visiting friends. There are rides, carnival games, square dancing, class reunions, goat burgers, amazing fair food. It is our girls favorite time of year. Yes they openly admit they like it more than Christmas presents.

Working hard at waiting.

          It is August, this summer has flown by. In our last post we shared that we finally completed our home study! Praise the Lord! With completing our home study we were able to move to the next step in the process. We were officially accepted into the India program with WACAP, which has a very reputable India program. This seemed like a dream. We were finally in the process officially. So we signed our contracts with them and paid the first agency fee. (that one stung the old bank account for sure.)  We then completed our documents needed to get registered with the Central Adoption Resource Authority, CARA. This is a major approval where India states you are eligible to adopt from their country. The normal timeline for CARA approval ranges from 4-6 weeks, however there have been major transitions in CARA and now the timelines have increased. We were registered for CARA on June 13th and now we wait every day to receive notification that we have been approved.  
After the approval we can begin looking at referral files for children, and then when we find the boy God designed our family for we will begin pursuing our son to bring him home. Here is a wonderful infographic one of my fellow adoptive mammas shared. It is the most gratifying feeling, being able to mark off boxes in this chart. 

We've been asked many questions along the way, especially how long till you get to go to bring him home? In short we have no idea. We pray it will be soon. We also know that many amazing prayer warriors are along side us, we know God calls us to help the orphan and for now that is what we rest in. 

An other question we receive quit frequently is the cost of our adoption. We have had some added expenses with having to complete several parts of our home study a second time due to the lightening damage to our home, and the number required to bring each kiddo home is different. Currently, to complete all foreseeable expenses, we need about $22,000. We have been applying for grants, selling assets and saving like crazy to meet this goal. 
This number is the line that many Christians pull out when adoption is raised. The amount needed to bring these kiddos home often seems unattainable. We totally understand. I have cried and worried over this number more times that I'd like to admit in this process. With every step of progress we make there are fees and its scary. Stepping out in faith is scary at times and when we started this process we thought we would be able to cover all expenses. But God has humbled us to show his glory through this process. I share this to encourage others by showing God provides and we will trust him to provide while serving him through the wait. 


On one night, while crying out in prayer for the next phase of funding needed once we are matched, a beautiful friend text randomly and offered a generous match fund for us. I could not believe this. She could not have known the timing of her text to me was an answer to prayer. This is just one example of how blessed we are to be surrounded by brothers and sister in Christ who understand the power of the Gospel and been such a help and encouragement in our journey.  

For our ongoing fundraising efforts, we currently have a GoFundme established for anyone who would be willing to pair with us in fundraising to bring Isaiah home, and are in the planning stages of several fundraisers that we will be holding over the next several months.  We are so grateful for all of you who have stood behind us through this journey so far.  We still have a long way to go, but we wouldn't be near as far as we are if it weren't for your help and support.  We ask that you please continue to pray for us, that God will be glorified through this process and others will be encouraged to reflect the Gospel through adoption.  

The World's Longest Home Study

Wow! The Woolard family has had a lot of changes since our last post.

If you'll remember from previous posts, in May 2017 our home was directly hit by lightening, causing $100,000+ worth of damage (pictures are available in previous posts). During that time, we were on hold with our adoption process until we could finish the repairs, which ended up taking 5 months. We could not move forward at all! So there we were, stuck in what felt like the world's longest home study (13 months)!  Our amazing social worker, Nichole, was such a blessing to us in this mess (if you ever need a referral, she's amazing)!

Now, we are finally done! We have the home study approved and are moving forward once again. We have officially been accepted into the India Adoption program through our agency. We have prayed for this day for so long, and it is finally here! We are now completing the I-800 documents, and praying that we get matched soon! We cannot wait to see a little face to focus our prayers on.

We are currently applying for grants like crazy and would really appreciate your prayers. We know God is in this and we feel blessed for him allowing us to walk this path.  Although it has been difficult at times, we know that he is sovereign and in control of all things. 

We are also thankful for Grandma Rozetta's pool. Check out our little on-duty lifeguard! 

Down But Not Out.....

We are in our 3rd week since lighting hit our home. We are still waiting for answers on how the insurance agency is going to aid us in repairing the damage. Our home is located in a rural part of Missouri that was recently hit by massive flooding. This has resulted in many claims that must be processed. We are unable to live in our home due to the massive amount of damage.





Every room in the house has major damage, except the one we were in waiting for the storm to pass. The room we were in has only minor damage. This awful situation could have been so much worse. We see God shining through this in so many ways. We knew that when we decided to step out in faith to adopt our son that the path may be hard. God never promises an easy life he promises that he will be our rest in the storm.

 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30

We have spoken to our social worker about what the future of our adoption looks like. She informed us that she is not able to process the adoption home study due to the information about the home not being accurate. We don't currently have a home. She will complete everything that she can. Then when we are in our home after the repairs she will come back for an additional home visit to inspect the new home and submit the paperwork for approval.

Which make perfect sense, but that statement almost broke me. It was not our social worker or the frustration of our life being put on hold, but the fact that I don't currently have a home.  I have been homeless before in my life. I never knew this would happen in my adult life. I know that this is completely different, but as many children who have survived abuse know the wounds run deep. The emotions of past hurt will show up at unexpected moments. This was one of those moments. We are homeless. We have no control over this process. I felt myself spiraling in to fear. We are able to live with my mother in law. All of our basic needs are meet. God is providing.

 We cannot see the daylight in this storm yet. We are in one of the hardest trials of our marriage. We have so much stress. We all still have to live life as we did before. We are out of our home and unsure when we will be back in it. All the work we have put in over the past year seems to be gone. We have amazing friends and family by our side, and we are forever grateful for that. We know that this will pass. God is putting the test in our testimony. Our adoption is not over. We will still be pushing to move forward toward bringing our son home as soon as possible.

With this we are praying. We are praying to receive guidance on our house. We are praying that the insurance agency provides answers. We are praying that our adoption continues. We are praying for our children at home are understanding our the current situation.

When it rains it pours...

   So much has happened in the last month. We completed our last home visit for the home study. It went great. I felt so much more at ease this visit. Now we are waiting for the document that our social worker types up to be drafted, fingers crossed that this goes well.
  School came to an end, which is always bittersweet. As a teacher you truly grow to love each kiddo. I'm blown away each year at the amount of sadness I feel every year sending my freshman off to high school. Maddie completed 2nd grade with fling colors. Jacquie completed her last day at Broseley Preschool and Daycare. This brought tears to my eyes. My middle baby is off to kindergarten. Charlotte is working towards being potty trained!!!!
    We were off to a great start, then our lives were flipped up side down. Our home was hit by lightning. The damage is unreal. It will have to have all electrical parts and wiring  will need to be replaced. We are currently unable to live in our home and our staying with my mother in law. We do are praying that insurance will cover all damages. We are blessed with a great contractor and a strong faith that God will deliver us. We are unsure how long we will be out of our home, the Amount of damage is pointing toward 3-6 months before we can move back in.
    Then, to add to my pity party I got bit by a spider, and Maddie needs some dental work. Life is hitting us hard. We are praying that God provides the funds to keep pushing ahead with the adoption and complete our home repairs. We truly appreciate all prayers. We are trusting in God to provide.

Home Study First Home Visit....

The flood of 2017 has been devastating for so many families in our area. Our thoughts and prayers are with them and their families.

So far we had completed our first visit with our social worker in St. Louis. Now we were ready to move on to the next step. THE HOME INTERVIEW!!!

In a home study you write a biography about your self answering very personal questions. Then, a social worker comes into your home on two separate visits.  During the first visit she asks you in more detail about the questions in your biography both individually and together as a couple. Then on the second visit she will revisit any issues she needs cleared up, look at our home, and talk with our children. Many of you all know my children and know I am praying about this also. :)

On the day of the first home visit, I was sweating bullets. I have cleaned and re-cleaned my home about 3 times. Debating on what to wear. Looked on Pintrest to see what to wear.  I made sweet tea, tasted it, dumped it out and then Googled how to make sweet tea correctly. Made coffee......, drank it......., made an other pot. Googled home study tips.  Ran to town to get my finger prints done/ keep me busy and not drinking coffee. While I was out I saw my beautiful friend Emma at a local store. She gave me the best hug and told me she would pray for me today to have peace.  This was exactly what I needed to hear. God placed this wonderful friend in my path. As soon as she said she would pray for me I was stopped in my tracks. I had not prayed today. I had done quick one liners with God throughout the day, but I had not stopped and truly pour my emotions out to God. I walked around the store praying and thanking God for friends that lead me toward my heavenly father. Thank you Emma. You never stop inspiring me.

I came back home still praying. Saw the coffee....., drank it......, made an other pot. Then, she pulled up. She greeted me with a hug and shared about her drive. I offered her coffee and warned her away from the tea. Then we got started. I was full on stress sweating! My glasses fogged at one time. I had been calling this my very expensive blind date and it was happening. I knew she was going to ask me about my past. I knew I would have to talk about it. She eased in to it. Starting with hobbies and my job. Then, BOMB! Tell me about your childhood and teen years. I had planned to gloss over everything answering only what needed to be said. This is not how it happened. I straight up word vomited on her. I spilled it all. It felt good to just get it all out, but instantly came to fear of sharing to much. She was very kind and understanding. I still felt the shame of letting out all my biggest regrets and hardships on this woman I had only meet once. I started to withdraw, I could see myself shutting down. The sweet, amazing Emma popped in my head. I quickly prayed and God calmed my heart. I am not my sins. I am new in Christ. God gave me the strength to stay in the moment and share how this past build my testimony.

Then, as quickly as it started my time was over. My mountain was conquered. Brandon pulled in and we did a brief interview together, with more to come next time.  I left to get our girls and it was Brandon's turn in the hot seat. When I got back with the kids we compared battle stories and agreed that it was not as bad as we thought it would be. It was invasive, personal, and exposing. I did cry once or twice but it was done. We are one step closer to finally bring Isaiah home.

In our lives before the home study my team went on a field trip to a local summer camp. My amazing team of teachers took one hundred 8th grade students in to a place where there was no cell phone service!! They were scared. They were confused. Then, they loved it. They talked to their class mates. They ran and played on slides. They fished! It was one of those memories I will treasure so many years.

Proud momma moment!! Maddie and one of the other teachers son was able to come with us that day. They both caught a fish, and then were helping out other students to learn to fish.

Yours in Christ, 
The Woolard Family